Question: Should you be with someone youre not attracted to?

Ultimately, its best not to commit to a relationship with someone until you feel attracted to the person completely. That said, its totally OK to date and see if connection and physical chemistry grow. Initial attraction is like the first chapter of a book. That said, some books start slower than others.

Can you be in a relationship with someone youre not attracted to?

By dating someone youre not physically attracted to, youre likely to feel a lot less pressure to perform and you can just be yourself and chill. This is key to any healthy, lasting relationship – itll mean that any connection between the two of you is genuine, and not a false version of yourself.

Can feelings of attraction come back?

Generally, it is possible to revive the feelings of attraction in the relationship. But it requires a commitment from both partners, honesty and a willingness to work on any underlying issues before its too late. “Once these needs change or shift, a person may feel no desire or connection for that person.”

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